If your bf who claims he wants to marry you...?

has no sympathy when you both found out that you have been bleeding heavily for 3 weeks because you have been miscarrying his child at 10 weeks - he doesnt so much as get you a flower but asks you to throw a heavy bag of garbage out to the dumpster while you are bleeding tissue and huge clots. When he finds out all this was a miscarriage, he doesnt even get you a card or flowers.. instead while you are in bed crying for the loss and finally deciding that you want to marry him - he sneaks behind your back to try to move states... and then badmouths you to his control freak 18 yr old daughter.. He has 3 kids. I have 1.. what would you ladies do?????

If your bf who claims he wants to marry you...?
Why do you even have to ask? He obviously doesn't care about your well-being, or probably even you. I'd pack my things, take my child and leave.
Reply:youve answered ur own question u know what to do
Reply:At first,I was thinking maybe he doesn't know how to handle all this with you.Not knowing his background,how he was brought up,etc.makes it hard for me to really judge that.But I feel badly for you that he isn't there to at least try to support you or let you know he feels bad-something! When you said he badmouthed you,what is it he badmouthed you about? I know that I would never trust my boyfriend if he had other children and ever,ever talked badly about me to them.We only have 2 together.Never should he talk badly about you to his children.He has 3 you say.Just wondering what is the age of you both.You don't deserve to be treated like that and I would never get married to anyone under these circumstances.Things usually only get worse if there is already this going on before you tie the knot.I do hope you make the right choice for you and your 1 child. Was he making plans to move out of state without you??
Reply:I would leave.
Reply:Run! Why would you want to be with someone that would EVER do that to you? You are obviously a better person than he would ever deserve. Get away from him and move on!
Reply:I'd be long gone!
Reply:Go find someone who will appreciate you.


He doesn't 'love' you the way you need to be loved.


That is heartless and mean!


Making you go through all of that alone.


I just went through some of my own things and my bf pretty much did the same thing. I have been sick for almost a year and barely ever got a 'hey, how you feeling?'.


I fought my battles alone and still do. I think it's mean.


We deserve a little attention and love too.


You need someone who will show you the attention and love.


I know that some men don't know how to show sympathy and love the way a woman does or needs. They are just too hard but come on sometimes they have to break that barrier and be what we need.


I'm sorry for your loss.


Good Luck ♥ God Bless
Reply:leave..what an ***..i'd been gone a long time ago!!
Reply:I would run as far sa possible from this man. Why should i put it with it. Nobody should but now that u know what kind of person he is ,it is u to decide.
Reply:Sounds like you need to move on. He shows no sign of committment and sympathy and doesn't have the sense to offer comfort.
Reply:I'd leave, and never look back.
Reply:Leave him,it sounds like he has some mental issues.

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