Iam in love with a married man he is the ione i know it?

hello guys ia married too i have amajor problem i met up with a married man who like me we are both married married he is very handsome oin metting him he bought me flowers he kissed me but nothing went further we both agreed to wait we tect each toher continoulsy we agreed to meet we bth agot our selves ready then he said on the day we were supposed to meet up and he was waitng to see me he said he had an emergency one of his sons in jured hi mself and he couldnt see me that night we got ourselves ready.so in the end deeply sympathy and he thanked me for my support and sympathy i text him back in valentines day message but since wednesday he hasnt text me back i dont know what to do i miss him terriby now it doesnt matter that we nevr got to gether but i miss him still help me guys what do id do do i text him or just let it go.

Iam in love with a married man he is the ione i know it?
Remember this: what goes around, comes around!
Reply:He's married!! MOVE ON!!!
Reply:let it go, id rather not want you to get hurt,


and i know ur thinkin "well thats easy for you to say"


but for real dont get hurt and put urself in the mans wife shoes because i dont think you'd like it if your husband cheated on you.


remember what goes around comes around. when my dad left my mom for another woman, it became down hill for us, and the woman didnt care about her husband, please don't break another marrige, Me and my mom and brother are livin strong but we struggle in life. Because of the way i was raised as a christain, i have forgivin that woman but she does'nt like me,still i forgive.


luv ya bye...
Reply:your hurting your husband, either forget this guy and dedicate yourself to your husband, or leave your husband
Reply:How can you go after a married man??? At least wait till he's separated.


He's got kids as well! how stupid are you. his wife will find out. and if I was her I'd go and find YOU!
Reply:HE'S MARRIED BACK OFF.... WHORE
Reply:i would sugest trying to see what is wrong with your marriage. why are you looking outside of your relastionship. talk to your husband do activities together. he's not leaving his wife and all you will be is a late nite fix
Reply:First of all: learn to use punctuation, it's imopssible to read this stuff. secondly: he's married, leave him alone!!!
Reply:If he is married he might be struggling to text back if his wife is around...wait a bit longer...n it'll be cool. If he the one...destiny will have its way of working him back to you.
Reply:let it go one excuse will lead to more
Reply:He is married and you are married it is best all round not to persuit this man any further. Nothing has happened with him so maybe he just wanted a friend. It is best not to get involved with a married man it can only cause you heart ache.
Reply:perhaps you have a chance to re-assess the possible family damage of taking this further?
Reply:leave it well alone do you really believe his excuse you are both married you are committing yourself to someone that seems to not be 100%,Not answered your text not met has agreed.You really know what the out come would be you would finish up no husband and no fancy man
Reply:I think you are both in relationships that are not making you happy and cheating is not the answer. Men use other women for their own happiness but usually dont leave the wife - if he wants you, tell him to get out of the marriage FIRST, same for you. Get out the marriage if you are not happy.
Reply:Everybody will get hurt. Spare that hurt and forget him.
Reply:ill tell u what if u really want to know what to do it simple why dont u try asking ur husband this question and see what kind of results u get from him because hes the only one that will be able to tell u what u should do and oh yea dont forget to tell him how u were trying to talk to this man on what is supposed to be a wonderful day valentines and do talk about that little kiss u gave him its people like u who ruin others lifes think about the kids that are going to be involved in this mess i hope u wouldnt want to tear apart there minds because ill tell u what it might fill good to u but it will screw up the kids heads no prob ive seen it happen it happened to me and my girls my ex left me for her dream so u can say and now im watching her go through hell what a shame. good luck to u.
Reply:oh my hun ok so you arent a whore but what you are doing is so so wrong its really bad stop it marriage is very special and you never got together he isnt the one and even if he is then maybe you should wait and divorce your husband and then get with him but he doesnt want you and you are married





i asked a boyfriend once "what if we get married and one day you meet the one girl you know you were ment to be with?" and do you know what he said "well i will love you forever and ever and i will make you the one for me"





girl if you dont stop this right now you will regret it for the rest of your life so stop it
Reply:Don't take it further. You would be destroying two families if you continue this. Yours and his. Think of the consequences. If you don't care about your family, think of his and his children.
Reply:stay away from married men they are nothing but trouble
Reply:You just think he is the one because your love is hidden and forbidden. Thus, stop thinking he is "the one" because hes really not you just think so because you cant have him. Move on and stop wasting your time, and a good advice he will always put his wife above you. To him, you are of no value.
Reply:u ca nt miss what u never had and u only think he s the one as he s paying u alot of atteion he was doing this for one reason ....to get u into bed then u really would nt have heard from him again i think u should try with ur own marriage and forget about him i aslo think he had cold feet as he thought about that how bad he hurt his kids and wife count ur bleesing and get on with ur life
Reply:Spell check would've been REALLY helpful in your post...please use it in the future.





Not only should you let him go but you should block his # so you cannot get communication from him...you are both married, so he's not "the one" for you nor are you for him...you're both cheaters and need to think about what you are doing to your spouses.





Do you have no conscience? I guess you wouldn't care if your husband was chasing after another woman then, right? I mean, if it's okay for you then it's okay for him...so why even be married?





What goes around, comes around...you've built up some bad karma here...are you really willing to risk building up some more over a guy you might find COMPLETELY unsuitable if you really got to know?
Reply:You've never met him and he is the one, you know it.


I can't imagine what those texts...oops, I mean tects...look like.





I bet he chickened out and his son is fine.





Let it go.
Reply:if you are married then you obviously aren't happy if you are so attracted to this man. free yourself from your marriage then if you %26amp; this other guy are meant to be it will happen.


personally, i believe a relationship where 2 people have destroyed the lives of former partners by cheating at the start is doomed to fail. you could never trust each other due to the way in which you met, if he would leave his present wife for you then who is to say he wouldn't leave you in the future?





presumably when you got married, you thought your husband was the one too?
Reply:Let him go, or you will end up being more hurt than you are now.
Reply:Jeeze. Leave him alone. He's married for god's sake! What sort of s*ag are you??
Reply:The heart is a funny thing. Please take a moment and look at your current marriage and put yourself if your husbands shoes. Are you really read to tell him that you are leaving him for someone else? Willing to loose it all? Because ultimately that is the road you are choosing by doing this. Is your secret friend willing to leave his family? If not, then it's not going anywhere, why risk yourself, your family, and your reputation for someone who doesn't love you enough (and you don't love enough) to be exclusive with oneanother? Your feeling for comfort maybe derived from not receiving enough 'love' in your current marriage. If so, then work that out with your husband, not somone elses! What goes around does come around, I am a firm believer. I honestly hope you take what I have said into consideration. I know it will hurt at first, but with time, you will see that hiding about yalls spouses is/was not the way to do it.
Reply:get over it and learn how to spell
Reply:let him GO you will only get more instances like this one, YOU WILL get huurt. You won't like this answer but you know it is right.
Reply:your both married. if you have feelings like this towards another man then you need to be honest with your spouse. It's not fair to your husband or to his wife and family for you to begin an affair.
Reply:Sounds as if he got cold feet, or was not allowed out, do not get in this any further it will lead to misery you are both married what will you get out of it only being his bit on the side and when you get caught it will be your husband who has to pick the bits up. Good luck, you are not in love with him you just want something that you cannot have.